AND THE GIRLFRIEND SPEAKS

Why is it hard to let go? Letting go of the person you love is really difficult. But if you really love each other why do you have to let go? If there's no third party involve in the relationship and everything is running smoothly and neither of you have fallen out of love, then the only reason that I can think of why you have to let go is that YOU ARE NOT GROWING TOGETHER. When you are in a relationship, you both go through the process of learning new things, discovering your strengths and weaknesses, overcoming your insecurities. To cut it short you two should grow together. When I say that you are growing together, I don't mean that you have to go through the same direction or perspective in life. You are both growing individually. Each one has his or her identity. Nag grow kayo ng sabay, pero bawat isa has to grow on his/her own. One can exist without the other. Alam mo yung feeling na pag couple kayo at nakita nyo ang common friends nyo imbes na kumustahin ka ang sasabihin nila "Uy kumusta na si (insert name of BF/GF here)? "Nasaan si (insert name of BF/GF here)?" Badtrip diba! Parang nagiging spoon and fork kayo, coffee and creamer, or bread and butter. Yung parang hindi functional or hindi kumpleto pag wala yung isa. When you feel that there's no room for you to grow, that's the time that you wanted to break free. Why? Because you wanted to regain the composure that you had when you were still single. You wanted to have your old self. Yung ikaw talaga. Yung hindi nagtatago sa anino nya. Yung hindi nabubuhay ng para lang sa kanya. Yung hindi ka nangangarap ng para sa kanya or para sa inyong dalawa, yung meron ka pa ding pangarap na para sa'yo talaga. At higit sa lahat yung ikaw na gusto mong maging at hindi yung ikaw na gusto nya, at lalong hindi ang ikaw na hinulma nya para maging close sa ideal person nya, pero napakalayo naman sa totoong ikaw.